To hit a happy medium between a dress and jeans, I've started using the following formula for nights out with G this month: sexy skirt + slouchy sweater + pumps. The pumps and skirt feel elegant, while the sweater has an approachable, comfortable ease that fits in at just about any establishment we'd frequent. A small touch in the form of a dainty gold star necklace (a similar version is available here) makes the look feel special enough for dates with my favorite person.