Cupcakes and Cashmere

New and Improved

September 3rd, 2009

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Last night I went to to get my hair cut and colored and when you have long, thick hair, it takes a while.  As in, a really long while.   So much so that instead of waiting the extra 40 minutes to get a blowout at the end, I opted to leave with wet hair.  I walked out of the salon resembling a drowned rat and within minutes I was shivering and frustrated.

My hasty departure got me thinking about my lack of patience of some of my negative traits that I would like to change.  It’s not always easy to admit things about yourself that could use some improvement, but acknowledging the issue is the first step.  Here are a few things I need to actively work on:

1.  Relaxing.  Whether I’m up worrying at night or hurriedly rushing through a meal, I need to remember to take a deep breath and just relax.

2.  Don’t be afraid of failure.  I’ve never been that comfortable in the kitchen, but failing is sometimes how you eventually succeed.  Plus, was it really that big of a deal when an entire batch of cookies came out in one giant puddle?  (I mistakenly used powdered sugar instead of flour).

3. Take time for myself.  I’m constantly running around multitasking, but it makes such a huge difference in my day when I take a few moments and do something for myself (even if it’s as simple as taking a walk).

What are some of the things you’d like to improve about yourself?

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  • http://www.fashionsnag.com Jacqueline

    I am impatient also. I need to work on that!

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  • http://dstyle4me.blogspot.com/ D

    awww, i always think your culinary creations look delish. i am not a patient person. esp in the car. i need to work on that.

  • http://laurenfromtexas.com Lauren From Texas

    I am SO impatient. Not saying it’s a good thing, but you’re def not alone. :)

  • http://sterlingstyle.blogspot.com TaylorSterling

    I am perpetually dissatisfied. I always want to move on to the next thing, buy the next thing, learn something new, do a new job…the list goes on. It’s not good for me and sometimes I just have to stop and enjoy what things I have!

  • http://www.soloden.com Jules

    Now, I wanted to be more patient. Just like what I posted on my blog. =D

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  • http://www.vanessaenriquez.blogspot.com Vanessa

    procrastination : /

  • http://behold-themetatron.blogspot.com Kris

    I;m with you on those 3 things actually!

  • http://sciencefictionstyle.blogspot.com/ Kristophine

    I’m always working on thinking before I speak–coming from a loud family, my first instinct is always to just sort of yell whatever comes into my head. Fine at family gatherings, a terrible idea in an academic workplace. “Plato is dead! Get over it!” didn’t make me any friends.

  • http://liviandb.blogspot.com Donna

    I would LOVE to be more organized – especially at home…I dream of a home where everything has it’s own place and all those things are in place….oh, someday!

  • Cristina

    I need to be more patient!! its not easy, but yes I hate waiting and i need to learned not to get road rage, am slowly working on this traits but its hard…am always in a rush and busy!!

  • http://www.whatrajwants.blogspot.com Raji

    Ahh I absolutely agree with these, such a good Q
    I’d baisically add to the list to not be so reserved, to get out there and try new things just for the sake of doing something different. I also need to make more of an effort to be patient with people, I’ve got such a short fuse at times and its pretty unfair to everyone around me =/

  • http://www.hautewhimsy.com Jen

    Hi Emily! A little off topic here, but would you mind letting me know where you get your hair done and why you like the place? We’re reasonably close I think, and I’m looking for a new stylist. The last two that I’ve tried have destroyed my hair, and I’m trying to get it back up to par before my high school reunion next month :(

  • http://betterthancandybrandi.blogspot.com/ brandi

    ohhh my gosh. i do the SAME thing! i have super thick/long hair too and it’s takes soooo long that i always tell her that i just want to go wet hair and all. no one understand why i hate getting my hair done but i do. its such a long process!!! too funny. so glad someone relates!

    i do know what you mean, i often find myself racing around here and there when i’m driving BUT i notice when i just drive *regular* it’s actually quite relaxing!

  • http://www.myedit.blogspot.com jentine

    I used to run out of the hairdresser with wet hair too.
    a) because i was way too bored to keep sitting still
    b) I was too cheap to pay for a blow-out that made me look like a weather girl…

  • http://www.sheisobsessed.blogspot.com Felicia

    Great Blog and I just love your food reviews. I respect your style of fashion so much! http://www.sheisobsessed.blogspot.com

  • sophie

    i also can’t seem to relax – i worry at night and rush through the morning. plus during the day i’m at work, generally frustrated so until a day off i can never properly relax.
    and impatience is a big one with me – i tried learning the guitar a while back and because my fingers are short and skinny i had a hard time with it. i wanted to by-pass the whole learning thing and go straight to slash standard.
    the only thing that i have actually been patient enough to learn is spanish, haha.
    great blog by the way, it’s a fantastic daily read. :)

  • Mara

    First of all, all the above. I should write and stick all those things on my fridge or something, maybe that way I’ll remember to work on them. Also, i should admit I’m stubborn and indecisive and those can bring me a lot of headaches and problems :(
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