Cupcakes and Cashmere

9 Lives, 18 Years

November 6th, 2008

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Allegro 1990-2008

I wouldn’t necessarily call myself a crazy cat lady, but I admit that I’ve been known to lurch after the occasional feline on the street from time to time.  My love for cats began when I was 7 years old, the day my mom brought home Allegro. Yesterday, we had her put to sleep when it became clear that her health had deteriorated past the point of an enjoyable life.  In between my crying fits and moments of tranquility, I’ve managed to find solace in some of my favorite memories of her.

Her sense of entitlement was comical.  She once pulled a Thanksgiving turkey carcass off of the counter and into her bowl of Friskies, completely unaware that the bird weighed a good 2 pounds more than her and that we had all been counting on leftovers.

She was sophisticated.  This didn’t just include her fondness for Burberry and diamond collars (I never had the heart to tell her they were all fake), but also her ritual of sleeping on top of the Style section.

 

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Lastly, she had an uncanny ability to cheer me up when I was sad.  Whether she  heard something in my voice or detected it my body language, she always found a place for herself on my lap during hard times.  From now on, that memory will have to suffice as I mourn her loss and celebrate her life.

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  • http://www.daisychainae.blogspot.com Amber Eilert

    I’m so sorry!! I know that losing a pet is so very hard, try to stay strong and celebrate her life! a

  • http://www.thebudgetbabe.com Budget Babe

    such sad news :( but she had a long, happy life and you will cherish the memories forever. I know how hard it is to lose a pet, so hang in there :)

  • Tricia

    Hey, Emily, so sad to hear of Allegro’s demise……I know how it feels only too well, losing a family member really. Keep photos around of her, it really seems to help, and talking about her is very OK.
    Miaow, miaow, Tricia

  • Nancy

    I loved Allegro and will always remember her jumping onto my shoulder and rubbing her head into mine. It that just the best? A beautiful creature.

  • http://www.bellemaison23.com julie

    i’m so sorry to hear the sad news :( i’ve grown up with cats and have (2) now…they have such different personalities and brighten my days with their quirky habits! Allegro had a good life and now she’s at peace :) it will get easier with time, i promise.

  • http://kokostiletto.blogspot.com koko

    i’m so sorry to hear about your loss – i’ll think good thoughts about kitty heaven for you :)

  • http://www.silversandsofstaugustine.blogspot.com Ama

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing pets hurts deeply, so deeply. I imagine it’s like losing a child. Powerless to heal them, not wanting them to suffer. I’ve not heard the final prognosis, but have been up nights with my cat before we have to hear it. She finally snuggled with me last night, her paw stretched out flat on my face. I’ve been terribly sad and torn apart, and your post about your dear Allegro helped me know I’m not alone. And again, cats are magical, and she is in a magical place now, I’m sure.

  • http://emisthebomb.blogspot.com Emily

    What a gorgeous kitty. I know she’ll be missed.

  • http://emilypanda.wordpress.com Emily

    she’s beautiful, as my nieces would say, she is living at rainbow beach now.

  • http://www.luxlucy.blogspot.com Lauren Estep

    Aw, I am not a “crazy cat lady either” but I love my 2 cats so much. It is true, they are great at knowing when you need some lap time!

  • http://www.nordstroms.com Lauren

    Aww… Emily. I’m so sorry. My cat died a while back too. It took me a lot of time to heal but it get’s better, trust me